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A project of End in Mind, The Art of Difficult Conversations is a virtual space for people to practice the skills necessary for having difficult conversations about the challenges we all inevitably face – from tough discussions about work or family, to talking about illness and decline, death and dying, or grief and loss. We do this by using art as a doorway into exploration.

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In Our Hearts

A mosaic reflects the beauty in what’s broken. It takes the shards of what was and transforms them into something vibrant and new.
Our lives are mosaics of loss, but loss can lead to growth, new insights and new beginnings. Our digital mosaic honors loved ones who’ve died and the lessons they taught us.

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You will be redirected to our secure online donation form. After completing your donation, you will receive a confirmation email with a clickable link. This link allows you to share details about your loved one and upload a photo if desired. Once we receive the photo, we will proudly add it to our heart mosaic and list of names in honor or memory of your loved one.

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Names Honored and Remembered:

Nina Guertin - In Memory of Leonard


Janny Gothro - In Memory of my parents - Dick and Maryan Schall


Anne Seltz, I donate in honor of me as I need you to be around when my time comes, with gratitude.


Charlie Greenman, in memory of Patty Botes. Her love, energy, and spirit embody all that End in Mind is about. She is a friend who though gone for 12 years, is always nearby.


Sharon Anderson, in memory of my brother, Joel Anderson


Larry Brandts


Georgianne Wurzer


Paula Barnes


Denny & Pat Marrow in memory of Elizabeth & Harley Bergren


Thomas Maida, In memory of my sweet wife Mary, who passed away of ovarian cancer in 2022


Cathy Wurzer in memory of Fritz Wurzer


William Lindberg in honor of Honor Bob Willey


Debbie Schmidt in honor/memory of Laura Petrofski, Allie Martin, Tom Tulien, Helen Jordan, Kathy Hagen, and all suffering from grief and loss.

Brian Engdahl in memory of Raina Eberly


Terrence Meersman in honor of Carmen De La Hoz


Randy Miranda in honor of Tyra Hughes


Allison DeCamillis, in honor of Deed & Tony DeCamillis and Jack & Sue Pratt


Carolyn Piepho, in memory of Joyce Kathleen Driscoll Rundle


Nick Koch, dedicated to all those who grieve loved ones


Patricia McMorrow, in memory of Michael Bischoff


Jodi Melsness, in memory of her mom, Jeanne Lundell


Norman and Andrea Cohen, in honor of Sam Stern & Cathy Wurzer


Johannes Allert, dedicated to Charles and Hazel Allert


Sam Stern, in honor of Cathy Wurzer


Cheryl Hagen, Dedicated to Gay Noble


Lori Williams, in honor of all our hospice patients and their loved ones


In memory of George L Chavez, Jr.


Barb Reuter


Lou Sandler, Thinking of you and Lou... missing the chance to give you a hug.


Dennis Turner


Remembering John Bramming


Joyce Kathleen Rundle


Jim Davis of Bethesda, Maryland who passed in December from COVID-19


Father, Doug Knowlton (04/26/1943 - 04/01/2019) & loyal family dog, Koda (02/14/2008 - 03/14/2020)


Steve Lufkin


Chris Shepard


Edith Miller


Carmen De La Hoz


Julie Benson; In honor of Hospice & Palliative care teams who tirelessly serve those with serious illness and at the end of life.


Barbara Brown: In memory of Michael Mayer, beloved brother.


Elizabeth Coenen: In memory of John Duggan, MD.


Lisa Haefs: Dedicated to mom.


Christy Moe Marek: In memory of my soul sister Laura who continues to inspire me to keep a possibility mindset no matter what, and to share it with others!


Jodi Melsness: Dedicated to my mom, Jeanne.


Sharon Radd: In honor of Bruce Kramer.


Stacie Saunders: In honor of Mark Saunders.


Jan Selby: In memory of my wonderful dad.


Michael Broeker: In honor of George L. Chavez, Jr.


Georgie Wurzer: In memory of Richard Wurzer.


In Memory of: Rosemary Alley... who taught me not to fear death, but to live life.


Raina Eberly: In your memory. You, who during your long struggle, taught us so much on our journey with you.


Carmen showed those around her how to live through her courage and grace in dying.


With love, in honor of the wonderful work my friend Cathy is doing to make this world a better place.

How to Combat Purpose Anxiety (Guest Post)

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By Richard Leider “There’s a crack, a crack in everything. That’s how the light gets in.” There’s a crack in many of our lives today. It’s a feeling of purpose anxiety—the fear of not knowing our purpose in life. Purpose anxiety comes at times from the feeling that “I’m just…

A Checklist for Getting Your Affairs in Order

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One of the best gifts you can give your loved ones is getting your affairs in order so they aren't left with a mess when you die. But you might wonder: What exactly should I be doing to prepare? We came across an excellent list of documents that we slightly…

Writing an Obituary Intro That Draws People In

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Writing a memorable and meaningful obituary is an art—one that can certainly be learned. At our obituary-writing workshop in February, journalists Ken Garfield, Kevin Duchschere, and our founder Cathy Wurzer talked about what makes a great obituary. One of the things they discussed is the importance of writing a solid…

How I’m Living with the End in Mind

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By Bill Kleis I visited with one of my neighbors a couple weeks ago when he was walking by. He said he had just seen his doctor and was assured he wasn’t going to die from anything serious. The more I think about that, the funnier it becomes. At age…

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Start your own conversations using this curated list of resources for you to use within your communities & your household. Go to the resource section.

Share Your Story

Do you have an End in Mind story? Share your story to inspire, inform, and lead others to take action. Tell us your story.

Get Involved

You can contribute to cultivating a culture where conversations about death and dying are normalized. Learn more.

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Purposeful Living

How to Combat Purpose Anxiety (Guest Post)

By Richard Leider “There’s a crack, a crack in everything. That’s how the light gets in.” There’s a crack in many of our lives today. It’s a feeling of purpose anxiety—the fear of not knowing our purpose in life. Purpose anxiety comes at times from the feeling that “I’m just…
Advance Care Directives

A Checklist for Getting Your Affairs in Order

One of the best gifts you can give your loved ones is getting your affairs in order so they aren't left with a mess when you die. But you might wonder: What exactly should I be doing to prepare? We came across an excellent list of documents that we slightly…
Artful Living and Dying

Writing an Obituary Intro That Draws People In

Writing a memorable and meaningful obituary is an art—one that can certainly be learned. At our obituary-writing workshop in February, journalists Ken Garfield, Kevin Duchschere, and our founder Cathy Wurzer talked about what makes a great obituary. One of the things they discussed is the importance of writing a solid…
Food for thought

How I’m Living with the End in Mind

By Bill Kleis I visited with one of my neighbors a couple weeks ago when he was walking by. He said he had just seen his doctor and was assured he wasn’t going to die from anything serious. The more I think about that, the funnier it becomes. At age…